Today as I wedged myself into our cataclysmic playroom and got down on my hands and knees to sort through the rubble, I decided I was over toys. Most of them have come from generous grandparents who like to spoil their grandchildren. And I love that they do that, but this year, I’ve been brainstorming gift ideas that aren’t toys.
Here are six good ones that would be perfect for grandma and grandpa!
6 Awesome Gifts Grandparents Can Give that Aren’t Toys
1. Pay for a sport or an activity.
Is there something your grandchild has always wanted to try but mom and dad don’t necessarily have the extra money to do it? Talk to their parents about it first to see if it’s feasible for everyone, and then give the gift of fun!
Enroll them in a season of flag football or sign them up for a community cake decorating class. Parents will love that you thought outside the box and kids will be thrilled to try something they’ve always wanted.
2. When giving money, make it memorable.
Every single year, from my first birthday to my 18th birthday, my Grandma and Grandpa Forbush gave me the same gift, but it was one I absolutely could not wait to get. I knew when they handed me that long rectangular wrapped gift exactly what would be inside—a cereal fun pack with a $10 bill taped to the top.
It was the funniest thing, but I think I anticipated and loved the cereal fun pack more than the money. Those eight mini breakfast cereals were sugary (the kinds my mom would never buy) and they were all mine! I’d savor one of them each day and notice how my siblings ogled them, wishing it was their birthday.
If you’re going to give money, make it memorable.
3. Take them shopping for a special outfit.
Gifts come and go, and I honestly don’t remember most of the ones I got as a child, but I do remember the one birthday my grandma picked me up to take me shopping for a special dress. I felt so big, riding in the passenger seat next to her in her big car. When she pulled into the JCPenny parking lot, I couldn’t believe she was taking me somewhere so fancy.
That birthday, grandma didn’t just buy me a dress…she let me pick out the dress. It probably wasn’t something she’d pick out herself, but is was a dress I absolutely loved. Every time I wore it, I’d think of my grandma and that special birthday.
4. Movie tickets
How cool would it be to get movie tickets from grandma and grandpa every year. Movie theatre gift cards make the perfect gift for every age. Young kids will think it’s the coolest thing in the world to go to a movie for their birthday and even get popcorn! Teens will play it cool, but will think it’s a pretty awesome gift, and adult grandkids (speaking from experience) will love the rare chance to go to a movie.
5. A season pass
If you really want to get creative, consider giving your grandkids the gift of a season pass somewhere nearby. This would be a great family gift too! Season passes to the zoo, children’s museum, water park, or local theme park would be epic.
6. Take them on a special date.
Most of all, kids crave time with grandma and grandpa and flourish when they get it. If you want to give a memorable gift, give the gift of time. Take your grandson or granddaughter on a special day trip or “date.” You could go fishing, go out to lunch, or to them mall. Make it a tradition and they’ll have memories of grandma and grandpa that last a lifetime.
Laura says
I am a grandparent. I recently told my daughter that I did not want to attend anymore birthday parties that were kid parties. I think it is fine that she is giving her child a party inviting other children but I really don’t enjoy sitting on the sofa watching her run by me with barely an acknowledgement. Instead I would rather pick up my grandchild on the weekend and have a special time with just her and I. So that is what I did this year. It took pressure off of everyone. And it was a truly special time in which the 8 year old stated she wanted to do it this way every year. We had dinner and she spent the night and the next morning we had breakfast and went shopping. Pleased me and delighted her and I got all that personal time!
Nicolette says
Absolutely love that. One on one time is always special and memorable. Thanks for sharing!
Norma Rolader says
Awww so sweet I am a grandmother (meme) my grandson I always give him money since he was in his teens and I always try to find different ways to make him have fun looking for the money
Nicolette says
I love that Norma! Thanks for the idea and you are one cute grandma!
Kelly says
I remember my grandma took me each year to Hallmark to pick out a special “fancy” stuffed animal. I’d spend an hour looking at each one picking out the perfect one. It was a special time and I loved stuffed animals, still do 🙂
Nicolette says
All of these comments are giving me warm fuzzies. Thanks so much for sharing and I LOVE that idea!
Ann Duncan says
As a long time grandparent, our oldest is 24 this year and youngest is 5, I am happy to say we have given almost all of these gift ideas! #6 was one of the biggest hits with my then 9 year old granddaughter.. I made it into a coupon book with several “special dates”!
Jennifer Reeves says
I am a newly first time grandmother. (Mema) to a precious little girl named Elodie. She will only be 6 Months old this, (her first) Christmas. I am assuming she will be showered with tons of toys and things she has never seen before and more than likely never even touch 1/4 of them before she grows out them and on to bigger and newer toys. So this year, (my first as a mema as well) decided to think outside the box and not be like the other two sets of grandparents and 2 sets of great grandparents. I am presenting her with her very own star named after her.
(Elodie’s little sparkle) Long after all the toys have been broken, given away, out grown, and thrown away, my little gift with still be shinning as pretty and as bright as it was the day off her first Christmas when her Mema gave it to her. I think as she she gets older she will appreciate this gift alot more than if I had gotten her a baby doll or Teddy bear. And I’m planning on challenging myself every year after to top the last Christmas gift with something even further outside of the box.
Tamara Jicha says
I live in Florida and am buying my grandchildren a lifetime fishing license. The younger they are, the more affordable they are. Just another idea!
Nicolette says
Fantastic idea!
Clara Milner says
When our first grandchild (now 31) was born I started giving him a Personalized Christmas ornament each year until he graduated from high school. Ornament had his name & year on it. I continued this also for all 4 of my grandchildren. Each year was a different ornament. I had such fun each year choosing a different ornament from the previous year. When they left home they had a start on ornaments for their own Christmas tree. They looked so forward to this tradition each year. The ornament was always on top of their Christmas gift.